There is an app with live results, a group chat comparing times, and a quiet pressure to do more, push harder, optimise everything. It is easy to become the most involved parent on the pool deck and believe that is the same as being the most helpful one.
It is not. The swimmers who go furthest, and enjoy it most, rarely have the most involved parents. They have the most steadying ones. This guide gives you the handful of habits that keep you on the steadying side.


